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Am I a bad person?

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You may feel like a bad person because the abuse happened, or because you couldn’t stop it at the time. Your feelings may be all because you couldn’t stop it at the time. Your feelings may be all mixed up and you might even blame yourself. Sexual abuse is NEVER your fault! You are not a bad person. The person who is doing it to you (the offender) is always to blame. You can talk to a counsellor who will help you with all your thoughts and feelings.

Who is a counsellor?

A professional who has been specially trained to support people who have been sexually assaulted or abused. The Counsellor can also speak with medical and legal services on behalf of the person if they want this.

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For more information about this or to contact the South Eastern Centre Against Sexual Assault go to the SECASA website.