How do I support my girlfriend/boyfriend who was sexually abused in the past?
It’s fantastic that your girlfriend/boyfriend trusts you enough to share this information.
For some people who have experienced sexual assault or abuse, it can be really hard to feel safe in a romantic or sexual relationship.
Generally speaking, sexual assault is any type of unwanted sexual behaviour that makes someone feel uncomfortable, intimidated or afraid.
What is child abuse?
Child abuse is when children or young people are harmed, not protected or not taken care of. Child abuse can happen in many ways, for example: Physical abuse, Emotional abuse, Sexual abuse, Neglect.
You may find your partner is reminded of the abuse by certain kinds of physical closeness, including kissing, hugging and sexual touching.
It’s good to check out with your girlfriend/boyfriend what kinds of touching they feel comfortable with.
Sometimes people who have been sexually assaulted or abused experience ongoing issues related to what they’ve been through. It can help you to support your girlfriend/boyfriend if you know what these issues could be.
For more informationFor more information about this or to contact the South Eastern Centre Against Sexual Assault go to the SECASA website. |
